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In a 2016 episode of Britain’s Secrets Anne Robinson featured interviews with two couples at opposite ends of the clothing spectrum. It included a few points that illustrated why I believe it would be healthier if niqab wearing women chose to stop wearing a veil.
On the one had there was a naturist couple who went about their everyday lives completely starkers. Then on the other hand there was a Muslim couple who spend their lives covered in cloth from head to toe.
Well, that’s not strictly true of course. It’s the wife who has to cover her head and her face. Hubbie doesn’t have to cover from the neck up. He just has to refrain from shaving.
Face to face communication is one of the most basic, oldest, and deepest forms of human contact. It’s a universally recognised way of expressing intent and communicating messages through facial expressions. You can’t have clear communication with someone who keeps their face covered. Niqabs and burkas hinder integration and contribute to segregation.
Even if you don’t share a common language you can exchange so much just using facial expressions. Minute muscular movements reveal the message in ways that we recognise consciously and subconsciously.
An uncovered face in the street or in a photograph can tell us so much. A veiled face tells us very little.
A veiled face says, ‘Do not look upon me. You are not worthy of looking at me. I do not want to be seen‘.
Those who suggest that women should be allowed to wear a veil wherever and whenever they want often use the argument that it’s a basic freedom of choice.
By that same logic anyone could walk around stark naked. Neither of these choices fit within the norms of British, European, and Western societies.
People are often reluctant to criticize the traditions of other cultures for fear of being labelled as racist and xenophobic. There is no greater crime these days, it seems.
Is it xenophobic to say that you find the veil an affront to open and honest communication?
Isn’t the whole idea that we’re all supposed to get along in a multicultural utopia? How can we do that if some signal their refusal to participate by putting up a physical and psychological barrier?
Those who wear a face covering feel it’s acceptable to look up on the uncovered faces of others but not for those same people to see their faces. Why?
Some niqab wearing women complain that they feel dehumanised, ignored, patronised, or overlooked.
Misogynists and xenophobes will still exist whatever you wear or don’t wear.
I suggest that women who wear the veil would receive the same respect as every other woman if they removed their face coverings and met the gazes of those within the same societies.
All it takes is a glance and a smile and all kinds of assumptions melt away. Stop wearing the veil and start speaking with your facial expressions.
Katie Hopkins continues to provoke reactions with her controversial views, but in the final analysis the reactions she generates can teach us about how we respond to the world. When you read a list of Katie Hopkins quotes focus on your reaction, not on the woman delivering the messages. If you can contain your outrage for a few minutes I’ll explain why I think she has a instructive role to play on the world’s stage.
First, a short story:
Two monks, a young acolyte and his older mentor, are walking to a monastery. After a while, they approach a ford at a river. The river is swollen and fuller than usual and they notice a pretty young woman waiting nervously on the bank, trying to summon the courage to wade across.
On approaching the woman the older monk offers to carry her across the river on his back. The woman accepts this act of kindness and clambers onto the monk’s back.
The younger monk is aghast! This is outrageous! How could his mentor disobey one of their stricters rules! But he says nothing.
On reaching the other side of the river the woman thanks the monk with a salutation and a smile and goes on her way. Two monks continue on their journey in another direction.
After a few miles the younger monk can contain his rage no longer and in an outburst of anger he says to the older monk, “How could you do that?! After all we’ve been taught and the vows we have taken?!”
The older monk replies calmly, “I left the woman at the side of the river. Are you still carrying her?”
Consider everyday intrusions on our minds, emotions, and general sense of well-being. How we react to any of these situations is our choice. No one makes us feel negative emotions, we just allow ourselves to feel them out of habit and lack of self discipline.
For example, someone cuts in front of you as you exit a roundabout, forcing you to break sharply with all the usual effects in your car. As this idiot driver accelerates away you are left with a choice:
You can call the driver an appropriate expletive, then take several deep breaths and continue with your day. You could think about one thousand and one things that are interesting or fun. It’s up to you.
Alternatively you could replay the scene in your mind and relive the anger. Take it with you as you continue with your day and tell everyone at work/home about it. Imagine other outcomes where, for example, you stop the driver and enter into a confrontation that escalates into violence.
To use another example; you’re watching Newsnight, Question Time, or listening to the Jeremy Vyne Show on Radio 2. Someone says something you passionately disagree with so you start shouting at the radio or the TV and countering the point. You start and internal dialogue in your head in which you make your point forcibly. You realise that it’s now 11.45pm and you can’t get to sleep. Who is doing this to you? The person on the TV/radio? Really?
If the world is controlling your emotions then perhaps it’s time you started working on those unused and flabby muscles called self-discipline and emotional intelligence.
Katie Hopkins says something about your lifestyle that you find offensive because it feels like a personal attack due to some choices you have made. That emotional response you feel is your responsibility, not hers.
If you’re offended, ask yourself why you feel this way? Why aren’t you comfortable in your own skin? Why do her comments rile you if you’re the self-assured and self-confident person you thought you were up to that point? Her comments and your reactions to them are the mirror that the world is holding up to you.
Katie Hopkins says something about others that you find offensive because you think it’s unjust and hateful for someone in the media to express opinions about other people’s lifestyles, religions etc. Again, that emotional response you feel is your responsibility, not hers.
Why are you getting offended on other people’s behalf? Does it make you feel like you’re a better person by doing so? How noble of you. See virtue signalling.
Do you check her Twitter feed each morning to see if there’s something new to be outraged about? Do you feel an urge to spend time and effort attacking her online and complaining on social media about what she has said? See SJW (Social Justice Warrior).
Do you think that, by expressing certain opinions, she is committing a hate crime and a Police investigation is warranted?
Do you think perhaps that our over stretched and under funded Police Forces tackling an ever increasing crime rate due to an expanding population have more important things to do?
As we mature from childhood into adulthood we’re supposed to stop stamping our feet and bursting into tears when we don’t get our own way. We’re also supposed to learn that we are in control of our lives and our emotions.
Unfortunately, not everyone manages to complete this important stage of maturity and they continue to blame their parents, their teachers, their upbringing, the government, and everyone else for all their problems. When Katie Hopkins points out that they have a choice, they blame her too.
If you feel offended, personally or on behalf of others, then ask yourself why that happens. Contemplate the reasons and learn how to deal with it, drop it, and move on. Otherwise you will spend your life in a near permanent state of anger and rage, with all the associated detrimental effects on your health and well-being.
Watch how Katie Hopkins expresses an opinion, defends it, and explains it again. If you have strongly held convictions you should be able to articulate them as well as she does in any debate, and you should be able to defend your beliefs without getting angry and upset because someone doesn’t agree with you. If you don’t know how to do that then perhaps it’s time you learned.
With all the above in mind, watch this collection of Katie Hopkins quotes and then see if you still feel offended or outraged. Could you perhaps just shrug it off and go and do some gardening, writing, or yoga? Maybe you could get on with some work?
Or perhaps you could listen the point being made and imagine how you would counter it with a well articulated point of your own.
You see, she’s really quite harmless. Your constant state of rage on the other hand, well, that’s a slow poison.
The Dalai Lama is one of the world’s most popular spiritual leaders. His compassion, wisdom, and humour have won him fans and friends all over the globe. He is welcomed by both religious and political leaders who give him their time and attention. When he speaks, people listen attentively.
As well as the millions of Buddhists who revere him there are millions more who buy his books, contemplate his teachings, and listen to his every word. His reach goes far beyond those of the same faith.
He’s also a Tibetan refugee, so he knows a thing or two about what it is to be driven out of your home country by strife and violence.
He knows first hand how it feels to be a long term refugee. Along with many thousands of fellow Tibetans he fled his homeland in 1951 when the Chinese invaded and took over the country. He is now based in India.
Given his reputation for compassion and other qualities it may come as a surprise to some when they hear what he had to say about refugees in Europe.
On the other hand, if you imagine what might be the best possible outcome for those whose plight moves you, his words may come as no surprise at all.
He begins by recognising the humanity in those refugees and expressing compassion and empathy for their plight:
When we look into the face of every single refugee, especially the children and women, we can feel their suffering
Then, he moves on to practicalities and he balances the view with the recognition of those in the host countries:
A human being who is a bit more fortunate has the duty to help them. On the other hand, there are too many now,
Europe, for example Germany, cannot become an Arab country
..he said, according to the German translation of the interview in the Frankfurter Allgemeine Zeitung.
Germany is Germany
He seems to recognise the strains placed upon the communities in the host countries who welcome in refugees:
There are so many that in practice it becomes difficult.
…from a moral point of view too, I think that the refugees should only be admitted temporarily.
The goal should be that they return and help rebuild their countries.
In short, he seems to be saying that we should of course help all those in need, show them compassion, and treat them with dignity and respect.
We should give medical, material, and emotional comfort and support to those who have suffered.
However, we should not maintain an open door policy and we should work towards the goal of returning most refugees to their homelands once the crisis has passed.
I suspect many refugees would agree. My guess is that many who have fled war would like to return to their homelands to rebuild their communities one day.
His advice speaks for itself, though it should be remembered that he’s talking specifically about refugees, not economic migrants moving from poor to richer countries, and not even asylum seekers who may never be able to return to their places of origin. The terms are used interchangeably, the stories are politicised, and the meanings are lost.
Real compassion isn’t selective. If you feel compassion for refugees and their plight then you can’t claim the moral high ground and dismiss the concerns of those affected by their arrival en masse, and yet that it’s precisely what happens.
In real democracies everyone’s voice is heard, even the voices of those you may dislike and those with whom you disagree strongly.
I’m one of the 17.4 million people in the UK who voted to leave the EU. According to many this means I am likely to be an ageing little Englander, a racist xenophobe, and a short sighted ill-informed idiot who has been duped by a campaign run by clowns.
It seems I’m also partly responsible for ruining any chances of prosperity and happiness for future generations, and the possible collapse of western civilization.
Who knew putting an X on a ballot paper could be so powerful?
The reaction is ongoing and it’s likely to be some time before feelings subside. After all, the intensity of the convictions are proportional to the importance of the event.
There is a lot of anger, but I wonder what the reaction would have been had the result swung the other way. How would the Remainers appease 16 million Brexiteers for example?
I’m not going to ask anyone to calm down or suck it up. Your reaction is your own responsibility and you’ll have your reasons. I respect your views and I hope you will respect mine. After all, isn’t that what a tolerant, fair and democratic society is all about? Aren’t we supposed to be mature enough to work this out despite our differences of opinion?
However, it seems some Remainers won’t be happy until we keep having referenda until they get the ‘right’ result. Either that or, some have suggested, this result is ignored.
The turnout was so large and the outcome so close that it was inevitable that several million people were going to be disappointed either way. There was no room for compromise. You were either for or against Britain leaving the EU.
However, this didn’t stop a lot of people sitting on the fence and abstaining altogether. It has been reported that there was an 80%+ turnout among voters aged 60+ and only a 45%+ turnout among those in their twenties, so it’s just possible that if more young people got off their backsides and voted then the result might have been a win for the Remainers.
On the other hand, I suspect there would have been even more votes Brexit were it not for the fact that there were some who didn’t want to feel associated with Ukip and Mr Farage, even though they broadly agreed with the principles of the Leave campaign. Eurosceptics on the left in particular may have wavered at the last minute onto the Remain side.
One thing I do know is that this referendum was not a General Election. A vote for Brexit was not an endorsement of Ukip policy, whatever the simplistic memes on Facebook may suggest.
I’m not going to repeat all the arguments here. We had months of debate and everyone voted for their own reasons. The media was awash with information and there was no shortage of data to mull over while you made up your mind.
Personally, I voted for Brexit with a sense of optimism and a positive view of a stronger, more prosperous country free of the reins of the EU, trading with our European neighbours and the rest of the world, but on our own terms.
Far from pulling up the drawbridge to retreat into Little England I sensed a chance for us to turn to look outward and further, with bigger ambitions and more freedom in which to explore them.
To me, a vote for Brexit was a positive move in a different direction away from a club that looks upon the UK as a rich but badly behaved uncle. Someone EU members tolerate for his financial contribution, but secretly don’t respect and find a bit embarrassing.
It was a chance to divorce ourselves from a failed project. Time will tell, but it may the case that once again Britain has shown the way and others will follow.
Meanwhile, we’ll continue be trading partners, friends, and allies to our European neighbours. Far from being insular we now have a chance to strike deals with any other country, free and unfettered by rules with which we don’t agree.
The idea that we could somehow fix the EU from the inside was a pipe dream. Mr Cameron tried a few months ago and returned with barely any concessions. The men (and it is mostly men) in Brussels would not compromise even though we he had the leverage of a UK referendum on the horizon.
The EU’s agenda will always come first and the pleas by individual member states for change or reform for the sake of their own populations will always come second.
We will continue to welcome immigrants to Britain, both from Europe and the rest of the world, who are ready and eager to contribute to our nation. It’s neither desirable nor practical to do otherwise, but we should be able to control who and how many come in to our country. There’s nothing racist about that. It’s just good government.
The thing is though, we seem to have bred a generation of people for whom the subject of immigration is the ultimate taboo. The political correctness is so powerful and ingrained that it’s difficult to even open the debate without a fair proportion of the audience assuming you’re a closet Nazi.
It’s been ridiculous for years. The mainstream media tip-toes around the subject while everyone from career politicians to sanctimonious students and Guardian columnists are ever ready to describe the benefits of immigration, as if they had never occurred to anyone else.
I’ve grown weary of being lectured like this by people half my age who assume anyone over the age of 50 thinks like Alf Garnett and deserves to be shipped off to the Winnie Abbott Re-Education Camp for the Politically Incorrect.
There are all too many people who, for the best of reasons, have a rose-tinted view of the consequences of mass immigration. They are often isolated from the impact and far removed from the real effects of a sudden increase in population in an area that doesn’t have the services and infrastructure to support it.
Even Miliband and Corbyn have managed to work that one out, but only because they didn’t get the number of votes they expected from certain areas that have a history of voting for Labour.
The media loves to report on bad news and attracts more viewers using sensationalism. We pride ourselves on being intelligent enough to know this and to be able to discern the difference, but the fact is we keep falling into the trap. We lap up the hysteria and have emotional reactions as a result.
Jobs were lost and created before the referendum. Contracts were won and lost, and businesses failed (BHS, Austin Reed etc). They will be lost and created afterwards and I’m sure that there will be those who blame the losses on the referendum result while at the same time suggesting that any created couldn’t possibly be due to the outcome of the vote.
I’ll bet there’s many more of the 17,410,742 Brexit voters who can freely admit to not being an expert in economics, but to pin our hopes for prosperity for ourselves and future generations on EU membership seemed an unwise choice.
No doubt many will think we foolish and uniformed, but there it is. I expect millions more voted either way on less information. I simply do not trust the people running the show in Brussels.
Assuming we want peace, prosperity, unity, happiness, and the whole nine yards then we’ve got to start imagining those outcomes, formulating a strategy, and moving towards it. I say ‘assuming’ because there are those who want disruption, anarchy, and violence. You’ll find them on the far left as well as the far right of politics. They’ve always been there, ready to leap in and seize any opportunity to prey on people’s fears and create turmoil.
What unites people despite all their differences is a common desire to live in peace and dignity, with a reasonable standard of living, and to see their children grow up happily with a decent education. That may seem obvious and simplistic, but it’s the foundation for everything else. Politics is just arguing about how to bring that about.
Britain remains a great country with a great future, if we choose to create it.
It’s up to all of us as a country now. If we can imagine it then we can make it happen, but if we’re determined to live under gloomy clouds of bitterness and regret then that’s exactly what we’re going to get.
As the eloquent Sufi mystic and poet Rumi so aptly put it:
Somewhere beyond right and wrong, there is a garden. I will meet you there.